Karen Patricia O'Connor

Karen Patricia O’Connor, a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, friend, and prolific author, passed away peacefully in West Chester, Ohio, at the age of 86. Born on April 8, 1938, in Cicero, Illinois, Karen’s vibrant life was defined by her deep love for her family, her unwavering faith, her adventurous spirit, and her extraordinary contributions to the literary world.

Karen was the cherished mother of Julie Sweeney (Jim Schaefer), Jimmy Sweeney (Michiko), and Erin Torr (Bruce). She is survived by nine grandchildren—Noah Bogart (May), Johannah Bogart (Yorckh Jacome Juarez), Jacob Bogart, Liam Bogart (Leah Mozzer), Caitrin Bogart (Coleman Pinkerton), Shevawn Torr, Mairin Torr, and Miles Torr—and four great-grandchildren: Massey Suba, Lavender Bogart, Asterius Bogart, and Xoah Bogart. Karen is also lovingly remembered by her brother Kevin O’Connor (Rita) and her sister Shevawn O’Connor (Anchise Ghiselli) and nieces Meagan Hood (Spencer Erwin), Lara Ghiselli and Nephews Stefano Ghiselli (Eleonora), Lanty O'Connor and Corb O'Connor.

She was predeceased by her parents, Phil and Eva O’Connor, her sister, June O’Connor, and her beloved husband, Charles Flowers.

A Life of Achievement and Adventure

Karen was a gifted and award-winning author who penned 70 books during her lifetime, with over 2 million copies sold. Her humor, wisdom, and insight made Getting Old Ain’t for Wimps a bestseller. She also received critical acclaim, earning an ALA Notable Book Award for her children’s book Sally Ride and the New Astronauts: Scientists in Space. Karen even ventured into screenwriting, creating the award-winning film script for Don Juan in Hell.

Karen’s passion for writing extended into teaching. For 40 years, she mentored aspiring writers through programs such as the University of California Extension, the Institute for Children’s Literature, and Brave Writer. She continued teaching until the age of 83, leaving a legacy of creativity and encouragement.

An intrepid traveler and nature enthusiast, Karen lived in California for over six decades. She spent 40 years hiking and camping in the Sierra Nevada mountains, including summiting Mount Whitney at age 57. She supported the Nature Conservancy and National Parks. She delighted in bear encounters, long walks with friends, and pie from Gizdich Ranch.

Karen’s zest for life included line dancing, health and wellness, and over 25 years of service as an Al-Anon sponsor. She found joy in helping others, whether guiding people to emotional wholeness or welcoming residents to Provision Living, her final home. She led writing workshops for the community and was affectionately known as “the closer” for her knack for persuading would-be residents to move in.

A Heart of Faith and Compassion

Raised in the Catholic tradition, Karen’s spiritual journey deepened through her time at Mt. Soledad Presbyterian Church in La Jolla, and then at Twin Lakes in Santa Cruz, California. She especially loved the teachings of Father Richard Rohr, which gave her peace and purpose. Her faith informed her work as a sought-after speaker at Christian conferences, particularly at Mount Hermon in California, where she began her speaking career at age 60.

Karen’s life was a testament to courage, compassion, and creativity. She leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter that will continue to inspire her family, friends, and readers for generations to come.

Memorial Services

A celebration of Karen’s life will be held on January 11, 10:00 am at Lord of Life Lutheran Church, 6329 Tylersville Rd, West Chester, OH 45069. Refreshments will follow. In li

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