Shirley Moran Gresham

Born in 1935, Shirley spent her childhood on the Port Gamble S’Klallam Tribal Reservation in Washington. She was the youngest of thirteen children and was deeply proud of her heritage and family ties to both the Port Gamble S’Klallam and Skokomish Tribes. As a young girl, she attended the Bureau of Indian Affairs Tribal School for Girls in what is now Bremerton, Washington, where she developed the determination, resilience, and independence that would guide her throughout her remarkable life.

While living in Washington, Shirley met the love of her life, Henry Gresham Sr., a United States Marine stationed in the area. The two were married before Henry departed to serve his country during the Korean War. Their marriage became a shining example of commitment, devotion, and unconditional love, enduring for 65 years.

After the loss of Henry Sr., Shirley found love and companionship once again with Kenneth “Kenny” Baker. Together they shared countless adventures, laughter, and cherished memories. Their relationship was built on friendship, mutual respect, and deep affection. They were inseparable companions, and it was often said that if you saw Kenny, Shirley was never far away. Their time together brought joy not only to each other but also to the many family members and friends who shared in their happiness.

Throughout her life, Shirley wore many hats and excelled in every role she embraced. She was a Certified Public Accountant, a farmer, a small business owner, and a certified family planner. Her strong work ethic, intelligence, and entrepreneurial spirit enabled her to build successful careers while always keeping family at the center of her life.

Above all else, Shirley cherished her role as a mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was a loving mother to Henry Gresham Jr. and a proud grandmother to John, Jim, and Glen. Her family continued to grow with the arrival of her beloved great-grandchildren, Skyler, Wyatt, Savanah, Elizabeth, Rhoe, and Kasen, each of whom brought her tremendous pride and joy.

Shirley filled her 91 years with creativity, laughter, and friendship. She had many hobbies throughout her life, but her favorites were painting, dancing, and, of course, playing mahjong. Whether she was creating artwork, sharing a dance, or gathering around a mahjong table with friends and family, she brought enthusiasm and warmth to every moment.

Those fortunate enough to know Shirley often remarked that she never met a stranger. Her warmth, genuine interest in others, and infectious spirit made people feel welcome wherever she went. She possessed a rare gift for turning acquaintances into lifelong friends and creating a sense of community wherever she lived. Her kindness knew no boundaries, and her friendships spanned generations.

Shirley is survived by her son, Henry Gresham Jr.; her grandchildren, John, Jim, and Glen; her great-grandchildren, Skyler, Wyatt, Savanah, Elizabeth, Rhoe, and Kasen; her beloved companion, Kenneth “Kenny” Baker; and many extended family members, friends, and loved ones whose lives were enriched by her kindness and generosity.

Shirley will be remembered for her strength, generosity, determination, humor, and unwavering love for her family. She leaves behind a legacy rooted in family, friendship, and perseverance. While her presence will be deeply missed, the lessons she taught, the memories she created, and the love she shared will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

“Those we love never truly leave us. They live on in the stories we tell,

the values they taught us, and the love they shared.”