James Patrick Conley

From humble beginnings to career success, everything in Jim’s life was anchored by love for his family and deep friendships. Jim never met a stranger, always drawing people into an ever-expanding circle of friends and colleagues with his outgoing personality and ability to find humor in every situation. His optimistic outlook was captured in words he often wrote to his children, “Try hard, don’t bitch and good things will happen.”

Jim was born in New Kensington, PA on March 24, 1943, the son of James and Stefanie Conley. He grew up in nearby Springdale where he exceled in high school as a letterman in both football and basketball. After receiving multiple scholarship offers from major college football programs across the country, he chose the University of Michigan, a decision he later described as, “the most remarkable four years that shaped my life forever.”

At Michigan, Jim embraced campus life and took advantage of every opportunity in the classroom and on the football field. From 1961-1964, he played defensive end for the varsity football team. He was chosen as captain of the legendary 1964 team and was selected as a first-team defensive end on the 1964 Big Ten Conference Football Team. Michigan won the Big Ten Championship and the Rose Bowl that year and the team is often credited for setting the foundation for the following decades of winning Michigan football.

Jim went on to build a successful business career in the Detroit area, staying close to the University and the football program. He had a big personality, a contagious laugh and truly lived life to the fullest with memories made of family, football Saturdays, days on the golf course and ski slopes, and traveling the world.

Most importantly, Jim never forgot his roots. As a football player, he admitted, “I didn’t have size, strength or speed so I played all on heart.” In addition to determination and hard work, his heart was full of generosity. He gave freely of his time and resources including being an outstanding mentor. Over the years, he took many people under his wing, helping them get started and go on to highly successful careers. He was also especially proud to endow an annual football scholarship at the University of Michigan, knowing how his own scholarship set the trajectory for a good life.

Jim’s enthusiasm and spirit of possibility live on in those he leaves behind. He is survived by his wife Annamarie; two children, Rob (Amy) and Rachele (Jake); and five grandchildren, Kaylie, Rachel, Campbell, Eleanor, and JJ. He also leaves behind his sister Paula Papp (Dan), brothers and sisters-in-law, Michael (Evie), David (Valerie), Marisa Tinaglia (James), George Pappas; cousins, nieces, nephews, and an endless number of friends. He was preceded in death by his parents, sister Christine Pappas and in-laws, Domenic and Delphine Bitondo.

Donations in Jim’s memory can be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at www.alz.org. A party to celebrate, honor and remember Jim will be held in the Spring. Details to be announced.

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