Parents, Stephan A. Dworak, Jr. and Alice Dworak, Sister, Sandy Collins, Brother, Randy Dworak
Survived by:
Sister, Betty Ann Berg and husband George
Children, David Crockett and wife Tracy, Sonny Crockett, Lorrie Jones-Crockett, and Wendy Hamilton and husband Paul.
Grandchildren, Lymar, Giovanni, and Julian Crockett, Tiffany Crockett and Kayla Lane
A hand up…
Born on Valentine͛s Day in a rough Army town
in rural Texas, Brownwood, (Yes, she is a
native!) just before the end of WWII. With the
War ending in June, Steve and Alice moved
back to Los Angeles County, California. Ruthi
became a Californian.
Graduated Claremont High School and Mt. San Antonio College.
Extremely active in sports, Girl Scouts and her church youth group.
She was chosen one of 12 youth from around the country to form a National Youth Council.
Ruthi traveled around the USA helping
churches form youth groups. As an adult, she
was assistant pastor to youth at two churches.
Her brightest moment was being chosen to go
to Alexandropoulos Greece as a missionary.
This is where Romans 12:1-3 became an
intimate part of her life. Yes, she was changed,
forever.
Ruthi͛s entire life was dedicated to helping the
hurting. She tried to always have an
encouraging word or a hug or a bowl of soup
for all that she met. Her goal was always to
help others find their Easter eggs.
In her heart, the thing that was professionally
most rewarding was to write a weekly column
called ͞Reflections by Ruthi. It was a folksy
homespun look at life …good…bad…ugly, for
two small local newspapers---One in Virginia
and one in Kansas. This column let people
know it was alright to just be themselves &
that there was always an Easter egg or three
along the way.
Back in the late 1960͛s while living in Lincoln,
IL, Ruthi helped form the Foster Grandparent
Program that helped low income seniors be ͞
grandparents to disabled children. She
supervised 75 seniors and 150 children.
Her most treasured life memory was reading
Little House on the Prairie, the Bible and
praying EVERY night with her beloved sons.
Being a navy wife, they traveled to many states
and even to Yokosuka Japan. Ruthi was the
Ombudsman for Davy͛s ship and helped all the
young wives while the ships were out to sea.
Beside her wonderful sons, God blessed her
with two daughters that didn͛t come in the
conventual ways. While in college, Ruthi was
in the wrong place at the wrong time and in
1965 gave birth to a beautiful little girl. Every
year she wrote her a birthday letter to help her
understand that it was out of love she was put
up for adoption. Many years later, God
arranged a meeting and they have had a from
afar warm relationship ever since.
While stationed in Norfolk VA, Davy and Ruth
met a sad young high school girl who
eventually moved in with them and became
their daughter. Davy and Ruthi had
discussed many times about adult adoption,
but were always to respectful of her trying to
reconnect with her bio-family, so they never
mentioned it. When she moved to Texas to
care for Ruthi, Davy, for sure, was singing in
heaven.
Coming from a multi-generational military
family, she had a true heart for any Vet and
active duty. Since 1979, until the last, Ruthi
was deeply involved with Wounded Warriors,
including working at the VA as a patient
advocate. When she moved to SATX, she
became a financial mentor for Military
Warriors Support Foundation—helping WW
families learn how to have success with the
homes they were given mortgage free. Ruthi
and Sonny also have volunteered at Warrior
Family Support Center at BAMC.
She has spent her life saying ͚thank you for my freedom & Welcome Home.
To any and all Vets/Active Duty.
Ruthi͛s greatest accomplishments? Only that
she loved people and only wanted the best for
them. Her accomplishments play out in THEIR
lives. The greatest decision was made
Mothers Day 2012 when Ruthi decided to stay
in San Antonio instead of continuing to Virginia
to retire. She fell in love with CBC and
onlinechurch became her NEW life. Had she
lived anywhere else, she would not have had
the fantastic doctors who cared for her during
her 2014 discovery of Carcinoid Cancer.
Ruthi tried to live bringing Valentine͛s Day to
the hearts of all whom she met.
Easter eggs are another way to explain God’s blessings in each of our lives.
When we are four, mom and dad hide them in very easy places. We learn how to gather them and are happy.
As we become more “sophisticated” in our seek and hide process, we find eggs under big rocks & up in trees-hard places to find.
When we are four, brushing our teeth is a HUGE obstacle to overcome. In Middle School, we are torn apart if someone says something mean or how to pass chemistry……Maturity brings BIGGER problems to conquer. Maturity also brings us a way to deepen our faith in Jesus. Every time I see an Easter egg, it gives me an opportunity to see how Jesus has helped me through - faith builders.
There is a special blessing in each egg, be sure to pick one up.
-Ruthie
In lieu of flowers donations can be made to www.Carcinoid.org in Ruthie's name
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