John Lynn Terry

John Lynn Terry, born November 23, 1944, passed away peacefully on May 2, 2026, surrounded by the love of his family. His passing was shocking, yet peaceful and graceful—reflective of the strength and dignity with which he lived his life. He leaves behind a legacy that is as remarkable as it is deeply personal.

For 56 beautiful years, he shared a loving and unwavering marriage with his wife, Victoria Terry. Their partnership was the foundation of a close-knit family and a testament to enduring love, mutual respect, and laughter.

He was a proud father to his two daughters, Kimberly Durham (Milton) and Kelly Dillon (John Dillon), whom he loved deeply and was endlessly proud of. He was the very best dad—leading by example, providing guidance and discipline, always rooted in love. He was a man filled with love for his family, and that love shaped everything he did. One example of this was his joy in surprising his girls on ordinary days, turning simple moments into lasting memories.

He was also a devoted and loving grandfather to six grandchildren, each of whom brought him immense joy: Matthew Durham, Kyle Dillon, Ryan Dillon, Sarah Durham, Samantha Durham, and Rachel Durham. His family was always at the center of his world, and he showed his love not just in words, but in the countless ways he showed up—steadfast, supportive, and full of warmth.

Known for his quick wit and great sense of humor, John could light up any room. He loved good food, lively gatherings, and bringing people together—often turning ordinary moments into celebrations. He was a fabulous host. He was devoted to his church and cherished singing alongside Victoria in the choir for many years. He was also a passionate alum of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Kenan-Flagler, and the Tar Heels, a love that brought him great joy and was shared with family and friends. He loved golf and spent many happy years playing; in later years, when he could no longer play, he still found great enjoyment in watching the game he loved, especially through the eyes of his grandchildren.

A man of many talents, he was both creative and visionary. He had a remarkable eye for landscaping and a gift for remodeling homes, transforming spaces into something truly special. Professionally, he was brilliant and determined, with a sharp mind for finance. He later started his own business in corporate tax consulting, where he found great success. His work even contributed to the development of specialized telescopes and satellites for NASA—a reflection of both his intellect and his ability to think beyond the ordinary.

Above all, he was a family man. His love, guidance, and example shaped the lives of those closest to him, and his legacy will live on through them.

A memorial service to celebrate his life will be held this summer, with details to be shared with family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you keep in your prayers those suffering from Parkinson’s disease and dementia and those caring for them. Donations are welcome to the Duke Dementia Family Support Program https://dukefamilysupport.org/giving/ and Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research https://give.michaeljfox.org/give

He will be deeply missed, forever loved, and always remembered.