Alice Hawley Holmes Pandolfi

Alice Pandolfi, 78, of Tampa, Florida, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by the love she so effortlessly gave to others throughout her extraordinary life. Born on July 30, 1946, in Boston, Massachusetts, Alice was a force of nature, a beacon of compassion and resilience who illuminated the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her.

Alice’s story began in the vibrant streets of Boston, where her laughter echoed off the historic buildings and her curiosity transformed everyday moments into adventures. She spoke of her city with the same love and reverence she gave to the people around her. Her stories—alive with the tales of adventure and the smell of salt air from the harbor—drew listeners into her world, where friendships were forged on sidewalks and character was built on dreams and determination.

A woman of boundless empathy and courage, Alice found her calling in nursing, a career where her steady hands and even steadier heart brought peace to the most vulnerable. Later, as she transitioned into healthcare fraud work at Aetna, her sharp intellect and deep sense of justice ensured fairness in a complex system. Whether offering solace at a patient’s bedside or championing integrity in her profession, Alice’s work was her quiet revolution, a testament to her belief in the dignity of every human being.

Alice’s life grew even richer when she and her beloved husband, Gil, embarked on a new chapter in Tampa, Florida, two decades ago. Together, they transformed ordinary days into cherished memories—strolling along Honeymoon Island as the sun dipped below the horizon, their dog Jazz bounding joyfully at their side. They found magic in the mundane, living a love story that spoke not of grand gestures but of enduring devotion and shared wonder.

Her warmth was legendary. Alice didn’t merely make people feel seen—she made them feel extraordinary. With her razor-sharp wit and a smile that felt like home, she turned every interaction into an opportunity to uplift and inspire. She was the kind of person who would remember your favorite flower, tell you exactly what you needed to hear (even if you didn’t know it yet), and make you laugh until your sides ached—all in the same conversation. Her generosity was limitless, rooted not in obligation but in an unshakable belief in the goodness of people.

Alice’s greatest pride was her family. She was the heart of their universe, a woman whose wisdom and love shaped generations. She shared a partnership with Gil, a love that was both anchor and sail, propelling them through life’s challenges and joys with grace. Her children—Steven Davis, Allison MacNeil (and her husband, Sean Porter), Jason Davis, and Scot Pandolfi—carry forward her strength and values. Her grandchildren—Brooke Davis, Clifton Porter, Ryan Pandolfi, Cailyn Pandolfi, and Garrett Pandolfi—stand as living proof of her legacy, embodying the lessons of compassion, courage, and integrity she so passionately instilled.

Her connection with her brother, James Holmes of Boston, was equally profound—a bond unbroken by time or distance. Jimmy was her confidant, her co-conspirator in laughter, and her greatest ally. Together, they shared a sibling love so rare and deep it became a story in itself, one of joy, loyalty, and support.

Alice’s life was a masterclass in how to live magnificently. She showed us the power of kindness, the importance of integrity, and the beauty of finding wonder in the everyday. Her family invites everyone to honor her memory by performing acts of kindness, large and small. Each gesture—a door held open, a neighbor helped, a moment of empathy—reflects the heart of who Alice was and the values she leaves behind.

Alice Pandolfi was more than a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend—she was a guiding light. Her laughter lingers in the memories of all who knew her, her wisdom echoes in the choices we make, and her love surrounds us still, urging us to live generously, dream boldly, and always strive to make the world brighter.