Terance Alden McAllister

Born March 1, 1945, in Bridgton, Maine, he was the son of the late Frank McAllister and Beatrice Head and the stepson of the late Richard Head. He was raised in New Hampshire and later made Connecticut his home for most of his adult life.

Mr. McAllister served honorably in the United States Army during the Vietnam War. A proud veteran, he was often seen wearing one of his many veterans’ hats, which frequently sparked friendly conversation.

Following his military service, he worked as a professional trucker, a career he greatly enjoyed and in which he was widely respected for his dedication and dependability. He was a member of the Teamster’s Union for years and retired from ABF Freight in New Haven, Connecticut.

He is survived by his wife, Sandra McAllister; and his six siblings and their spouses: Dennis and Sue McAllister of Port Charlotte, Florida; Deborah Smith of East Conway, New Hampshire; Earl and Jennifer Wentworth of Casa Grande, Arizona; Tom and Clara Fox of Meridian, Idaho; Dwight “Ike” and Cindy Wentworth of Valdosta, Georgia; and Perley and Louise Head of South Chatham, New Hampshire. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and extended family members.

Mr. McAllister enjoyed working on cars and riding motorcycles, with his Honda Gold Wing being a particular source of pride. In later years, he became an avid supporter of the UConn women’s basketball team. Well known in the Southington community, he was friendly and outgoing and never met a stranger.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to the doctors, nurses, and staff at Yale New Haven Hospital for their exceptional care. Special appreciation is extended to Kathy Couture, who supported him over the past two years, and to his nurse Tracy Crosby, who visited weekly for six years; both became close friends. The family is also grateful to his neighbors for their assistance and to his friends at McDonald’s for their companionship. His beloved cat, Trouble, was his constant companion and closest friend.

No formal funeral services are planned. The family will gather privately to honor his life. He will be remembered for his steady kindness.