Gerald George Grafstrom

Gerry Grafstrom was an independent spirit who lived life on his own terms, following his own path and staying true to himself. Gerry recently wrote and published his memoir, Normal Is a Town in Illinois, But I Don't Live There. It was an accomplishment he was very proud of, and he released it just weeks before his death. Through his writing, he put his own experiences into words and created a lasting record of the life he lived.

Gerry built a career around his knowledge and passion for motorcycles. He first worked as a Suzuki service representative and later became a teacher of Suzuki mechanics, sharing his knowledge and experience with others. After retiring from his career, Gerry continued working, spending the last three years of his life at Best Buy, where he used his knowledge and passion for his other hobby, computers.

A motorcycle enthusiast with a particular love for Suzukis, Gerry valued his independence and the freedom to live life his own way. He marched to the beat of his own drum, choosing his own direction rather than following the crowd.

In his later years, Gerry shared his home with his daughter, Margaret, and his grandson, Cyrus. He helped Margaret raise Cyrus, playing a huge part in his grandson's life during those important growing years. He also leaves behind his granddaughter, Kiley, who, along with Margaret and Cyrus, will carry their own memories of him.

He is survived by his children, Margaret Grafstrom and James Rhoads (Karen); grandchildren, Cyrus, Kiley, Jamie, Eli and Katie; sisters, Maryann (Chuck) Romano, Barbara Grafstrom and Kathy (Wally) Bochonko; brothers, Roy (Dee) Grafstrom and Donald Grafstrom; and many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his parents; his wife, Pamela; sister, Arlene Wright; and brothers, Larry and Tom Grafstrom.

Gerry lived life by his own rules, pursued the things he loved, and remained true to the person he was. His journey was truly his own, and he will be remembered by those who shared a part of it. May he rest in peace.

Memorial services will be held Saturday, October 31, 2026, at 10:30 am at the Lake Mariana Acres clubhouse, 2041 Thelma Dr., Lake Alfred, FL 33850.